How To Get Laid Consistently With Only 5 Cents In Your Bank Account

I’ve been picking up girls without spending a dime for more than three years now. I can tell you from hard learned experience that it can really have toll on your self-esteem, having no money what so ever. It will make you feel as if you don’t have value to offer. Therefore, you’ll be scared to even spark up a conversation with women, which leads to

Approach anxiety.

You, me, them…we’ve all felt it at some point in our lives. Whether you’re a girl or a guy, going up to a stranger to just chat her up will always be a somewhat frightening task. We as humans are meant to be thriving, but in order to keep us alive and well, our brains have come up with this wonderful invention called fear, that is supposed to keep us alert and at bay against any danger that might come up. Therefore, since approaching a stranger used to be a grand threat to us because during those ancient times you never knew if he or she was friendly or not. Back then you could have been clubbed to death for something as simple as entering someone’s territory.


Luckily, this stuff does not happen that much anymore, but since this sense of danger has been deeply coded inside us due to the way the world is, fear is probably never going to leave us. When I look around on the internet, browse all kinds of online programs, I tend to see online marketers promising guys that their fear of approaching women will be gone after they’ve enlisted themselves into their highly expensive program, which is completely insane.


First of all, fear can never be removed since it is an important feature and also something that makes us human. It’s our survivor mechanism that will keep us safe. However, our brain signals fear whenever the potential for threat might occur, which in many cases during our day to day lives is completely false. Therefore, it’s up to us to separate danger from fear and use logic as our core value. It’s really damn important to be aligned with reality.

Yes, it’s true. Fear can never be removed, but we can overcome it by using simple logical facts such as nobody is going to kill you for approaching that girl on a street. If anything, guys around you will be baffled and wish to have your unbreakable courage. And the girls will feel as if you’re the most valuable guy around since you’re the only one with balls to approach a stranger, which is attractive as fuck. And, also taking the most important point into consideration – nobody actually gives a fuck. It’s highly likely that nobody even notices you, or even if they do, you’ll be forgotten in the next minute or so.


There is really no downside in approaching strangers. You can only gain from that.

That being that, most of us struggle with this despite knowing there’s no downside. For guys, even if there’s a reward in the end, they still choose to reject themselves and not approach the girl at all.

Psychologists have proven that it’s much more effective to not offer a reward, but to take something from that individual if he fails to deliver.


All that being said…


Let me introduce you the 5 Cent Technique.


I’ve been marketing this as a poor man’s way to get laid, and that’s exactly what this is. The reality is that you can be anyone and still use this technique, since it’s one of the best ways to cure approach anxiety as a guy for good.

So, what does one need for this to work?

  • Any coin
  • A friend

Here’s how this game works. You and your friend both meet up and go out to a venue where you can constantly see girls walking by. Once you’re there, and you feel as if you’re unable to approach girls, have your friend take out a coin, pick a side in which case you have to approach, flip it (assuming you get the “approach her” side), and give you 5 seconds to approach that girl who he picked for you. If you fail to do so in the next 5 seconds, he has the right to slap you as hard as he wants to. If you get the other side of the coin, just pick another girl in a minute or so and repeat this process.


Now, who wants to be slapped, am I right? The chances are not many. The key here is to not beat the shit out of your friend for not talking to a girl (or is it?), the key is to give him something to lose so that he’d have to work to get it back. In this case, it’s his organs staying in the right place, but it can literally be anything. You can just flip out 50 euros and give that to your friend, which he’ll give back to you after you’ve approached some girl. This is really the ultimate way of how to destroy approach anxiety – give yourself something to lose if you fail to deliver.

Keep this in mind:

The First Approach Is Always The Hardest One.

You might just need the coin trick to do that one approach, after which you’re ready to tackle this matter on your own. Do whatever works to get the results you desire.

After all, if you fail to accomplish your goals, you just don’t want it bad enough. If you actually wanted to get to know that girl who just walked past you, you would not even need a damn coin or a punch. You would not need anything, you’d just go.


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How To Make Picking Up Chicks Really Easy For You

MOST things taught about picking up chicks, game, seduction, man to woman social dynamics or whatever you want to call it, are completely pointless unless you understand ONE thing about female psychology.

She won’t fall for you.. She will fall for the story ABOUT you.. 

Let me explain you about this weird, but extremely important concept.

This is something I discovered about 2 years ago and has been a KEY to a lot of my beliefs about approaching women from cold approach. (Making it super easy)

One of the best dating coaches in the world, Alex Social, describes this concept brilliantly in his “inception dynamic” video. I’m putting this all together to help my own understanding, as well as your own.



I don’t think anyone can totally understand this as its super confusing as to why things work this way.. But knowing a few things help you just get on with things without constantly worrying about theory.

Basically, you don’t need to be an expert for it to work. 

You just need more faith that by doing so much less you can get the girl.

To help me get my thought process around this, I tried to make it as simple as possible. Writing posts like this help give my own clarity on the situation. Through writing I can finally realize that I know and what I don’t. Trust me, dating is the stuff that I’m most passionate about, therefore the thing that I know the most about.


The point of this post is to give you much clearer map of how to proceed when things are confusing when approaching women, when you are getting cold reactions and nothing seems to be working.

If you are approaching a lot of women, then you probably only need to change a few things in the way you are approaching. Most likely. Most men are already enough from the very start, but just need to be reminded of that in order to own it in dating, so it’s just a small paradigm shift, nothing to crucial. In this case I am speaking to these “most men” out there. If you define yourself as a complete hard case, as someone whose not bad with women, but just utterly terrible with social interactions in general, then please be directed to my other article.


Most men fall prey to superficial ideals promoted by social conditioning, and even pickup conditioning! They think they need to become something in order to get laid, when in reality it’s about just those small little tweaks in your belief and behavioral system that make you irresistible to women. When you understand this, you will be able to make a lot more sense of your progress and things will become a lot simpler. You will build more emotional resilience and more stamina.


This is a slower more advanced way of doing things..

Unlike “attraction based game” where you make the girl defensive and evasive via relying her to give you a green light,

If you have the belief in the form of the following affirmation then you will find what I’m saying to be obvious.

“Regardless of how the girl reacts to me at first, I know that she will like me if I spend enough time with her, she will eventually grow into me. It’s called The Buckle Effect.” 

This is a true self belief and a true knowing that you are a good guy and that you and her can develop something together.


If you are not getting the “buckle effect” then you are probably doing something wrong which is listed below..

1) unhygienic looking 
2) bad dress sense
3) too much energy pouring on the approach. (Too needy)
4) too polarizing (too weird/aggressive/un relatable. 
5) the girl is logistically unavailable (boyfriend is near, she is in a hurry, lives on another continent..) 
6) rushing
7) overcompensation 

It’s actually quite hard to make a lot of these mistakes. Number 5 being one of the most common.

Number five is almost completely out of your control, but the other 6 are not. A lot of the time women become completely unavailable it’s because of something out of our control and we blame ourselves. We blame our skill level, we blame our value, we blame ourselves for fucking up a “perfect” situation without even realizing what’s actually going on inside her head.

That’s why a lot of guys rarely improve their self-esteem when basing it on the results they are getting.

But, if you approach with having this understanding in mind, everything changes.

What I’m saying in this post is more about meta game, or one way of looking at attraction in overall. Something to have in mind when you go about your day to day life, a sense of direction, a certain idea of what your life is about and why you’re doing the things you’re doing regardless of how big or small they are. In that case, pickup then doesn’t become this dominating force controlling all your decisions. You begin to embrace life instead of being this outsider that needs to put on a game face every thing shit gets real.

The point of this post is to create leverage to give you more stamina and more patience. Have more faith in who you are as a man and don’t give up so easily or give into unhelpful beliefs such as “she just wasn’t that into me”.

Time game. 
This type of game in my opinion is the safest way to create a genuine connection with a girl and its due to an equal investment on your part at first and you then being a “special guy” that she wants in her life.

You become that guy NOT from something you do but from a whole heap of things you don’t do..

Let me explain.

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Leverage is key. Stories are leverage. She needs to be able to put together a story about you that seems intriguing. More experience with this approach on dating creates even a stronger belief that women think and feel this way (because then you’ll see for yourself that it’s true), making you more patient, more persistent and more manly in general, therefore you create more female attention on you and have more opportunities.

Rather than running around the club or street trying to get it done in minutes you completely flip the script on your self with this liberating way of thinking. You literally take all pressure off.

Same as night clubs, instead of constantly looking for the right opening or way into the night via a girl who looks either interested or “not too mean”, you let things unfold naturally which has a much more powerful effect.

So what’s the practical idea of all this?

You approach her despite the gut feeling you have inside, you approach her despite her looking like she’s going to slap the shit out of you once you get there. You approach het simply to see where the story is going to go while keeping the possibility of her being into you open at all times. When she’s acting reactive towards you, then she’s into you.

By using this approach, the pressure soon comes off and the need to do and say the right thing will diminish, which in turn is translated in your sub communication, where true “game” lies, making you more powerful and irresistible by default.

The effect this has is subtle, but powerful. She’ll love the story of you and the more time you two spend together, the more she’ll begin to ease up for you. It’s just like in school. Remember how you became best friends with your desk mate? You two probably had not much in common, yet you two eased up for each other since you spent so much time together, went through thin and thick, suffered under the tyranny of teachers. That shit goes deep, creates a positive feedback about the other soldier sitting right next to you and makes friendships extremely easy to happen. Did you know that most people who are desk mates in school are also best friends in real life? That’s pure psychology.

Back to the topic of dating,

Use time game.

Time game, I find, is if you are patient and don’t necessarily “Need” to make something happen, then women will start to slowly make more effort. She will literally provoke you to get some reaction, which will give you another way to hop through her hoops by being non-reactive to prove to be seemingly even more high value than she originally thought.

This is where things become fun and true seduction begins.



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The First Kiss With A Girl You’ve Just Met

When I look around, I see people struggling with their approach anxiety, being afraid to put themselves out there due to low self-esteem and self-worth.  Then there are guys that have HUGE entitlement and think they deserve every girl out there, yet have no sold actions to back it up, and I’m talking about body language and pickup skills. There is also a big group of guys that think they do not need to improve and therefore end up sucking with social interactions, failing to create arousal within the girl and fail to present themselves as a man in general.

My sticking point, however, has always been the same. The first kiss.


For some fucked up reason I’ve always found it hard to go in for the kiss and as many of you already know from my book, that first kiss between you and the girl you’re trying to seduce is almost the biggest stepping stone towards creating strong and meaningful attraction between you two. Sure, you have probably seen me pull girls without kissing them or seen girls chase guys without the guy doing anything to even seem appealing to that specific girl. Those things happen and are entirely dependent on that specific situation that you’re in, but in most cases kissing the girl you’re with before having sex with her is EXTREMELY CRUCIAL.


After dealing with this problem for years (yes, that is correct) I finally found out why it was so. The reason was actually very simple. My frame was just not optimal for the attraction or in this case, the kiss, to take place. I did not have a clear goal in mind, like what I want from the girl and what I’m even doing there in the first place, which was mostly caused by me being overly keen on Eckhart Tolle’s books and practising the power of now without having a clear purpose in mind. Sure, you can feel happy and satisfied when being in the “power of now” zone, but the kiss is not going to happen if you do not implement that shit yourself, and to do so one must have at least a clear destination in mind of where he wants to go with this girl. My frame at that time was to just enjoy every moment and experience the present, but I got too caught up in it and forgot to work towards my future goals, which is this case were to improve my seduction skills and eventually have sex with lots of women.

So in the end my failure to kiss the girl on a date even when she was into me came down to these simple principles:

-Lack of experience (obviously)

-Lack of purpose, not knowing what I was there for, not having a clear sense of where I want to take this.


But hey, I make mistakes so that you guys would not have to!


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Become The Next Dating Prodigy In 4 STEPS

Warning! This post might save your dating life.

Anyway, let’s begin…

When I was new to the dating world, not knowing what sparks attraction within a woman, thinking looks matter and therefore starting to work out, trying to get myself down to a low body fat percentage just so that women would approve of me and sexually want to be with me, I had major troubles with getting girls to actually like me. Needless to say I did achieve my fitness goals and looked freaking amazing without a shirt, but the results with women did not add up. Due to this I made a powerful discovery –


When trying to find a girlfriend, your physical appearance does not matter. On women it does, and loads! On men, not so much (I’ll get into this in a second).

Now, let’s talk about the quality of girls. If you want a woman of higher quality, let’s say someone who works out and is winning in business, relationships… a woman who’s an overall winner, do looks matter? A little, yet nothing crucial.

Same with money. Does it matter? A little, yet nothing crucial.

Ultimately what makes a woman be attracted to a man is who that man is. No, I’m not talking about what that man does for a living or what status he holds in the eyes of our society, I’m talking about who that guy ACTUALLY is.

In my mind there are four pillars of attraction and by having them all properly balanced out you’ll be the most perfect guy she could find.


Nothing is more attractive than a guy who has a drive in life and who’s working on himself as a person.

This is when you’ve set a specific goal for yourself in life, knowing where to go and actually taking action and going there! This is when you know what you’re about and are not afraid to show it. Keep it fun, keep it lighthearted since the girl will not be attracted if you keep trying qualify yourself by sharing your goals and telling her how she should like you just because you have a goal. Not at all. Figure out what your life is about, set a goal for yourself whether it’s long-term or short-term, doesn’t matter, and then interact with the girl as if you did not care whether she finds out that you’re man of purpose or not. By doing so you’ll be purposeful almost automatically simply due to having the proper inner game sorted out before the approach.

Also, the girl will not fuck you if you do not take the conversation as a foreplay for sex. Since that’s what it is. Act with her as if you’re a man and she’s a woman and you’re both horny as fuck, yet there are social norms that prevent you two from fucking right then and there. Know as if you both are totally willing to fuck, but not yet. Do not try to win her over, already believe that you’ve won.

Besides, who the fuck would have the balls to actually approach with a sober head and then make it work? Almost no-one. So take some fucking pride in that. By being in self-help, by improving and focusing on learning more about life, having that as your main priority so to say, you’re already on the top. Money and good looks won’t change that. Your perception, in other words the way you view yourself however does!

By approaching, realize that girls want to meet a sex-worthy guy, and then there’s you providing that opportunity for them.

Therefore, have a purpose for your own life AND know why you’ve just approached that girl you’re talking to. If it’s for sexual purposes, own it.  If it’s to just make a new friend, own it. Girls will be whatever you like them to be, if you’re grounded and real in your intentions while being able to show some empathy and realize what’s going on so that your extreme masculinity would not scare them away.


Control the interaction. Think of yourself as a tree whereas the girl is the squirrel running around the tree. It’s the rule of being in reaction versus being grounded. If you want to have sex with a girl, you need to be the tree while she is being the squirrel. Whoever is reacting to the other more is the one that’s being controlled. And if the guy is being controlled by the girl, he’ll lose his sex-worthiness. Simple as that.

Also have an alignment in your thoughts, words and actions. If you’re out there approaching girls just with the sole purpose of having sex, own it up and act like it. This does not mean to be like a dog and chase girls, just assume every girl in the venue has already seen you and wants to have sex with you and now it’s time for you to choose. In other words – view yourself as a fucking god.

Is it realistic? Fuck no, but does it have some truth to it? Fuck yes. By improving yourself as a man and moving towards better understanding of our world you’re on the top, therefore one of the most sex-worthy guys out there. Having a STRONG sense of your own reality, whatever that might be. And is that far away from being a god? Hell no.

Act like a rock-star and get treated like one. You don’t even have to back it up, that’s the beauty about psychology and game. The one who has the strongest frame, wins. In the girls eyes you can be whoever you want to be.

Girls want a guy that’s alive, in his prime, on top of his shit, going places, has certainty, goes through life with ease, knows where he’s going. She wants a guy that’s potent and in his fucking prime.


You will be meeting tons of girls when you go out. By meeting more people you’ll become more at ease with your interactions. You’ll be in this state of flow where talking to people and getting sex at the end of the night with a girl you like seems effortless. You’ll be in the zone, so to say.

Talk to everyone, sleep with the ones you like and learn from EVERYBODY. Even the guys that are trying to game and are competing with you. Learning is KEY.

Also, keep in mind that a girl is not a goddess. Snap out of that illusion, all girls are human just like you. They have families, they have issues, they are insecure, they try to be cool, they are living their own fucking life and are by NO MEANS perfect. She is the same value as you on a ground level, and if you’re a hardcore go-getter who’s eager to learn from everyone, your value will be even much higher!

And that’s okay. Accept everyone for what they are, you can be playfully judgemental yet never quite mean it (don’t call an actual fat person fat and so on). Accept people for what they are since they’re all fighting their own battles, big or small. Have some respect for that.

Anyway, flowing. Take it easy, there’s no need to rush things. Know that everything will work out eventually if you just keep at it. Come from an abundant mindset. Don’t let anything disturb your peace. Consistent meditation is of tremendous help here.

Act like a rock-star and you’ll be treated like one.  Act like a rock-star and everyone will assume you’re one. Simple.


Whenever you go out, fun is such an important element. And I’m not talking about drinking, playing Pokemon with friends, sex or board games. I’m talking about having fun on your own, seeing the light side in everything that comes in your way and embracing the chaos, creating fun vibes out of nothing simply because you’re a giving person who loves to share good vibes.

Share good vibes! Be positive! Be the guy who’s good mood cannot be broken! Be like fucking Tom Cruise, the most positive guy ever!

Only you can determine your own entitlement. You see a hot girl, you feel approach anxiety yet you go anyway – that there defines you! It’s not the smile you get from the girl or the sex or any other validation you receive. It’s your own perception.


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How To Become Unreactive To Bullshit

Being unreactive to anything that’s external is perhaps one of the most powerful concepts one could master in the dating game. It’s the state where you simply do not care what happens at all and are completely drawn into the power of now, harnessing energy as you go and having no outcome dependence or any kind of insecurities at all. It’s the state of where you become the watcher. You no longer practise picking up chicks, nor do you sell yourself to get something from the girls. You become the game. 


Think of a table. Does the table care, when you analyse or judge or just look at it? Does it flinch, get nervous because it’s in the spotlight? No. The table does not care. He just stands there so that stuff could be put on it. You could say or do whatever you want to it, but it just does not care. You will not hear any talking back or trying to the table justifying its actions.

However, what would a person do? What would you do? You’d probably get a bit nervous and start thinking whether the things the other man is projecting from you are positive or negative. It’s okay, almost all of us do. Especially when the criticism is coming from an authority. It’s like you trying to write while someone stands right nearby and stares at you the entire time. In those situations it’s really difficult to focus. I belive this is something we can really learn from inanimate objects. They don’t care what others think about them, because they can’t. They have their own job in our world. So do we. We are unfortunately not born with the ability to not care what others thing about us, so we need to create it ourselves. It’s up to us whether we let others discourage us. When we reach the point where everything that’s not useful to you is just background noise, you’ll possess the power of being rock solid.


Is being rock solid just about not caring what people think of you? In a way, yes. It’s the ability to be yourself without letting others shake your mental state with their words and also moving in the direction of becoming better because you understand how life works. It’s about being an unstoppable force, being someone who is ready to take on anything that life throws at you on the road of following your dreams.

How to follow your dreams? A person becomes what he thinks about.


If you wish to be rich, you’ll be rich. If you wish to be famous, but don’t think it’s possible for you, you’ll never be famous. If you don’t even wish to be anything more, then you will not be anything more than you are right now. The only trick is to really want the things you desire and wish them exclusively, not just wish hundred other incomparable things at the same time. Focus on a handful of things and once you get them, expand.

Wishing something so strongly that you’ll stop at nothing to get it, is being Rock Solid. And being rock solid will get you laid and beyond.


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Nice Guy Syndrome (And How To Fix It)

Ever since we are young, our parents have emphasized the idea on us that we should always be nice to each other even when we don’t want to. It’s such a common thing to say, since pretty much every single parent has said this to her child at one point or another. This kind of belief, if one takes it too seriously, will set your kid up for failure. The person who believes he or she needs to be fake and pretend to be nice only because that’s the way how we are able to operate our lives without stepping on any toes, creating anger in others and getting into conflicts, is uneducated. The result is simple. People who are mean on the inside, bitter about life and hate tons of different things, are trying to preserve themselves to be nice, since it seems to be the righteous thing to do. These are the very same people who get angry at life wondering why everything bad always happens to them, since they have done everything right, not pissed anybody off and been a good person overall.

No, that’s most certainly not so.

You are just acting as a nice person, but in reality you’re really not. You’re bitter, full of anger and fear, and have no clue how a successful person regardless of his or her field would operate. You are blind and uneducated. You’re a sheep.

If you act as a sheep, then you will be treated like one.

This is your reality check.

A big misconception is that we should all be nice to each other. The idea is to not be fake, but to actually be a nice person so you would not have to fake your mood and actions. The person who has good things happen to him is actually nice, he is a good person deep down and wishes the best for people without having fear, anger or hatred clouding his mind.

“I attract a crowd, not because I’m an extrovert or I’m over the top or I’m oozing with charisma. It’s because I care.” -Gary Vaynerchuk

One of the most praised traits is honesty. However, honesty is not something people usually want to hear. When you’ve failed your exams, then of course it’s better to hear the other guy saying that it’s okay, the exam was hard anyway, you’ll do better next time opposed to sayings such as failing being your own fault for not studying hard enough, for not having willpower and so forth. Honesty is a great policy, if the place the words are coming from is love. The guy that everyone want to be around and who people respect, is the guy who’s honest, yet sincere and offers quality advice instead of making the other person feel bad.

Train yourself to be the guy or girl who enjoys life, then you’ll be the real wolf, not bringing people down with negativity nor lying about who you are, but staying true to yourself and making sure that “self” is positive and worth being around.

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Key Elements Of Being Successful At Dating


„If you have a strong enough frame, you can get away with anything.“ – Mystery


This is pretty much the whole deal. You can literally get away with any craziness, if you truly belive it yourself. This is also the reason why experts always say to be yourself. In my book this is only a deal half done. Sure, you can be yourself, but if you’re a 31-year-old man still living with your parents without any income and overweight, being yourself is not really helping now is it. The truth is – it can work. It really can fucking work. But a guy like that needs some certain traits in order to make it work. First, he has to look himself positively without criticising.

Pretty much any style can work in pickup. Does not matter whether you’re rich or poor, ignorant asshole or a nice guy, someone coming out of a breakup and being broken up about it or someone who is a total player. I can’t even address this enough. It does not really fucking matter. You can even be totally negative about your life and you still get girls, who want to be with you! Although not as often as with other positivity, but you still do.

So what’s the best combination in order to be successful at this? Every method works to an extent, but what’s the best style? What’s the most bulletproof personality to have? From my perspective there is no right answer. There are methods, that work extremely well, some that do not bring that many results, but still work and some, that work only sometimes and with specific type of girls. There is just one rule that applies to all of the methods that exist. Go out. Put in the effort of approaching women. Does not matter what your method is. Just fucking do it. This is by far the most important piece of the puzzle and always will be my number one advice to give.

If you’ve made it clear to yourself, that nothing will happen if you don’t go out and meet women, then you’ve already better than most of the men living on this planet. Now, if you move down to the second level as in what works the best, I can give you two things. Confidence and fun. I’d say they are both about 50-50. If I had to pick just one, it would be fun. Being able to amuse a girl is very important. Does not have to be extremely funny, although it helps. Just keep it interesting.

What is interesting?

Could be anything. For a woman an interesting story is interesting, if you find it interesting yourself. These two together, fun and confidence with going out and giving an effort are and always will be the fundamentals of pickup.