If you’re anything like me, at some point of your life you’ve probably wondered if some specific girl, that Marla from accounting or that Tina from the coffee shop, likes you. It might seem like a biiig “IF” to some of you, and some guys even have this unbreakable sense of entitlement of thinking that girl wants to fuck them yet in the real world that might not be the case at all! Being a dating coach and pickup artist, I came to a solid conclusion a long time ago on this subject. Lately, I’ve been putting the truth all on paper.
Therefore, let me introduce you to:
5 Signs That Girl Likes You Back
After you approach her, she actually stops and makes an effort to talk to you(1). You might think that girls do that out of being polite, yet my experience is that it is most definitely not the case. Hot women get so much male attention that they are, quite frankly. fucking tired of it. Therefore, if they get approached by a guy who, she can tell, doesn’t have his shit together, she’s going to blow him out right away. Hot girls tend to not waste time on guys they see no potential in. Therefore, if you see a hot girl walking down the street and you approach her, say hi and make a comment about either something or perhaps ever her (her looks or the way she appears to be or just something random you come up with that may or may not be true), and she stays there to talk to you, she obviously is interested at least on some level and finds you decent enough to actually have a chance with her. Of course we in the dating industry emphasize not giving up that easily and staying with the girl even when she tries to avoid you simply because they all crack at some point or another if you’re consistent and have your shit together, about which I teach in my program, the sign of she actually letting you introduce yourself AND if after that she is still standing there talking to you, she’s obviously interested. Keep in mind that sometimes the woman does not even know she’s interested, so her vocabulary might speak against her body language, meaning she’s telling you that she’s in a hurry yet she still stays there and waits for your response. If she’s paying attention to you, you have a good chance. Well, about as good as they can get.
Crossing her legs while standing(2). This is a big indicator of interest since this act is her subconsciously letting you know that she’s not going anywhere and that she stays put with you. You’ve obviously hooked her and she’s intrigued to see what kind of a guy you are. Words don’t matter, your vibe does, which is expressed through words.
Playing with her hair(3). She’s nervous, because she finds you attractive, so she immediately starts playing with her hair just to keep fingers busy. It’s a clear sign of she liking you, yet waiting for you to make your move. Girls rarely make the first or even the second move. That’s the guy’s job.
Starting a conversation out of the blue(4), especially if it’s a funny fact or picture or just related to trying to make you laugh. She clearly has the hots for you and is ready to meet up once you implement it.
The biggest indicator of interest(5) is that the girl is STILL there WITH YOU. Since women get so much male attention, it is foolish to think they’d be inclined for some moral reason to stick with you for hours despite not liking you. Therefore, if she’s still there, your chances are pretty fucking great! Whether you’re asking her out and she agrees or you already spending time with her and her mind doesn’t wonder off and stays on you, clear signs of sexual attraction.