What You Can Learn From Porn

I got into a conversation about adult film stars (or you could just say pornstars). In the world of porn they call people who are not in the business, either acting or behind the scenes, “civilians”. These are the consumers of the porn, the ones that enjoy the fruits of their labor. Adult films have a huge amount of view count, some statistics have proven it to be around 70% of the whole internet consumption. Really crazy, right? Porn is like the hidden reason of why we even have internet in the first place. A big porn machine.

But what happens behind the scenes is also remarkable. Pornstars, girls in particular, have hair extensions, makeup and the most perfect lighting you can find. Many sex positions they do are almost impossible to follow for an average male or female and are even not that comfortable. In real life you would not enjoy them, but in porn, even if the position is a bit whacky, it’s in your contract that it at least has to look like you’re enjoying them.

Many sex positions are forced, uncomfortable and were just used to make the movie look better. This is how the producers see it, but the civilians, the ones that are consumers of the porn, do not see that side and are therefore blinded by the lights so to say. Real sex almost never lives up to that magnificent standard that porn is creating in your mind and which will implement itself harder and harder into your brain every time you open that browser.

That same mindset applies to many things, especially success with women, dating, pickup, whatever you wanna call it. Guys think that people like me are always confident, always on, always ready to hit up the next hot chick on the street, never get rejected, always crushing it twenty-four hours a day! In fact, very moment I finish writing this I’m gonna fly like superman into another woman despite right now being in a meaningful relationship. It’s like people like me are not living a normal life with friends and┬áspiritual depth.

In my posts, I’m showing you a part of my life that’s for most people really hard to grasp themselves because of their own ego, insecurities and so forth. I am not “on” all the time. I also get depressed, I have relationships, both good and bad, I get rejected more than almost anyone on the planet due to the volume of approaches I do. I am a normal fucking human being.

This female friend of mine used to be surprised that I did not try to have sex with her. She was mocking me for me not putting my dick inside her. She constantly asked if this is how I pick up other girls too, being overly friendly and not kissing her when the time is right and the chemistry is there. Truth be told, I just wanted her as friend as I do with many other girls just because I’m fond of their personality. Obviously. Guys like me do that they’re passionate about, which is to master the field of seduction, but we also have regular lives as well. We work out, we go to birthday parties, we talk to our mothers…

The usual.

If you wanna believe all those crazy stereotypes, then that’s fine, but you’re not learning from the person in the process by creating these unrealistic ideas and expecting something that’s completely impossible to deliver.

 

 

 

 

 

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