“In the dating game and with social interactions in general it’s not about what we do. It’s about who we are. Who we are is how we feel.”
Let’s say a girl asks you to go dancing with her and you hate to dance. What will you do? My friends used to come up to me and ask such questions. My answer to them would always be the same. Do you want to dance? It’s as simple as that. Don’t be fake because the girl will know. And being fake means that you’re not happy with yourself. That’s not attractive. So even if you disagree with the girl and she ditches you for not dancing, it’s fine. If she ditches you for such a reason, then she did not like you in the first place! And if she does like you, then she will respect you for being you. If the attraction is real, then they always do.
Whether you have a question about game like should I do this or that, just ask yourself – Do you want to? It’s really that simple!
